I was asked if I was sure I wanted to marry her…
I am 100% sure that I want to get married. With her, life is better. Nothing is easy, I know that, but she makes things feel simpler than they’ve ever been. I want to get married because I want to be able to proclaim the love that I have for her and through the process I can validate my love to her in the best way (opinion). I heard someone said today that they didn’t want to have a wedding, they wanted to have a marriage. They were afraid that they would do so much in having a ceremony that would forever outweigh the rest of their lives. I’ve never had that fear and although I understood where she was coming from, I didn’t waiver. I don’t have to be afraid of what’s to come because in my heart I know that we will love each other. I can’t predict the future and I haven’t been a great believer in faith, but my heart tells me that this time, I’m right. She is the one. The one woman my mother approved on sight. I love her and always will.
I don’t believe in Society’s implied time to go through stages. The biggest reason I’m marrying you “so fast” is because I’m certain. I’m certain that I love you with all of me. I’m certain that you know it. I’m certain that each and every morning, your face is the one that I want to wake up to. I’m certain that when things are going bad for me, you’re the person that I want in my corner picking me up and motivating me. I’m certain that I can give you the physical, mental, and emotional support that you may need from time to time. I’m certain that I want to start the rest of my life with you as soon as possible.
When I heard about National girlfriends day I was excited. I planned a day out with my the woman in my life, my fiancé. Then I saw the post about what it “officially” means. A day where female best friends celebrate each other. These were all posted by women. So, me being me, I looked up National boyfriend day, it exists. National fiancé day, it exists. National wife day, it exists. There’s even a national husbands day.
I had to wonder what the big deal was about. Were these women so bitter about not having a male (or probably even a female) to spoil them that they’d try to rain on people’s parade? Why shouldn’t a guy be able to treat his lady on this day? Why should it be turned into a negative if he does? Just because you don’t have it doesn’t mean you get to ruin it for others.
The more I looked, the more I saw that some people only do the things they do because they are lonely. Well, I’m sorry for that, but I’m going to show my woman that I love her whether this day was made for me to do so or not.
PS: We had an amazing day.
Day 30 – Highs and lows of the past month
Can’t remember lows because I have a hard time dwelling. I guess one would be an argument with my girlfriend, but we’re already over it. Another low would have to be falling behind here and there in this challenge. Lol.
Highs include being praised by thesis committee for the good work I’ve been doing. Getting the confirmation to graduate was also a high.
I can’t wait for the next 30 days and the ones after because my number one high, Her, will be right there with me.
Day 29 – For goals for the next 30 days
My goals are simple
First is defending my thesis and graduating withy Master’s Degree.
Second would probably be proposing? Yea. Big step.
Third is to
be as happy as I can be no matter the situation.
Day 28 – Something that you miss
I miss my childhood.
It was such a simpler time. The bliss of ignorance was comforting. I didn’t know how cruel the world was. I only knew of being a good child in the eyes of my parents, doing well in school, and having fun when I could.
It was also the time when I had the opportunities to make friends. I mean lasting relationships. I don’t know why it’s so much harder now, but it is.
I miss my mom’s cooking. Very much.
I wish I could go back to my childhood for a week.
What do you miss?
Day 27 – A problem you’ve had
I honestly can’t think of any problems as of late, but in the past my biggest problem was being an immigrant and not having any papers.
I found out in 12th grade when I went to get my drivers license but found out I had no social. It was rough after that. I lost scholarships and free opportunities to travel abroad.
I’ve half resolved the issue. I have a work permit now, which means I got my drivers license and I can travel to a certain extent.
I just hit 200 followers.
I just want to say thanks to all who stop by and read my post. Your views and likes motivate me.
Ok. Back to writing.
Day 26 – What kind of person attracts you
I am attracted to confidence.
I am also attracted to intelligence.
I am attracted to natural beauty.
I am attracted to someone who knows how to enjoy themselves and makes the most of everything.
I don’t have an ideal in mind, but someone who possess these qualities would really attract me.
Day 25 – Someone who fascinates you and why
I would say I’m most fascinated by my girlfriend’s son.
His imagination and creativity is amazing. He loves dinosaurs and knows so much about them that I almost envy him.
I’m also interested in his potential. I can’t wait to see where he ends up with his academics. I’ll be right by his side through it all.