​When I heard about National girlfriends day I was excited. I planned a day out with my the woman in my life, my fiancé. Then I saw the post about what it “officially” means. A day where female best friends celebrate each other. These were all posted by women. So, me being me, I looked up National boyfriend day, it exists. National fiancé day, it exists. National wife day, it exists. There’s even a national husbands day. 

I had to wonder what the big deal was about. Were these women so bitter about not having a male (or probably even a female) to spoil them that they’d try to rain on people’s parade? Why shouldn’t a guy be able to treat his lady on this day? Why should it be turned into a negative if he does? Just because you don’t have it doesn’t mean you get to ruin it for others. 

The more I looked, the more I saw that some people only do the things they do because they are lonely. Well, I’m sorry for that, but I’m going to show my woman that I love her whether this day was made for me to do so or not. 


PS: We had an amazing day. 

30 Day Challenge – Day 12

Day 12 – Bullet your whole day

• I went to bed at around 4 in the morning. I was talking on the phone with my girlfriend: she didn’t want to go to sleep without me being on the phone.

• I went through a couple alarms this morning before finally getting up and getting my day started.

• Texted my girlfriend for a while.

• Took a shower with some music playing. Washed away the sleep.

• I got dressed with my favorite music playing and got into a good mood. I knew from that moment that I was going to have a good day.

• Walked to the bus stop, but I forgot my charger. Had to walk back home to get it. Silly me. Got on the bus and headed to work.

• I talked to my advisor about my thesis and she directed me in the right path for the edits that I needed to make. I edited it in about two hours while my shows downloaded in the background.

• After my shows were done, it was time for my date with her. I walked happily to the bus stop at school and waited anxiously for the shuttle. She sneaked up behind my and wrapped her arms around my neck. Highlight of my day.

• We got on the bus and headed into town. Walked to the tire shop were I play dominoes then to the restaurant.

• Took her a while to figure out her order, but she finally got it. We ate lunch and talked about anything and nothing.

• After lunch, I walked her to the bus stop and kisses her before she got on. Didn’t want to stop missing her. I wouldn’t mind waiting for the next bus.

• I walked back to the tire shop and played some dominoes with the guys. I won some and lost some. All in a days work I guess.

• When everyone left, I walked home and called my her. We stayed on the phone for some time before I let her go.

• Then I started watching the shows I downloaded this morning. Gonna be doing that and texting her for the rest of the night.

30 Day Challenge – Day 01

Day 01 – Your current relationship, if single discuss how single life is 

To say it simply, my current relationship is amazing.

They say that you have to go through bad to get to what’s waiting out there for you. I have been through alot in my life and I think that with her is where I should be. It’s not perfect, because nothing is, but it’s better than most that I’ve been through. She has been a major inspiration for this blog and my writing.

She makes me happy daily and I love the feeling. I don’t think that I have ever been as content as I am right now. Every moment with her is amazing. We don’t even have to be in the same room to enjoy each other. She makes me laugh by being silly and I do the same for her. There have been moments when we have both driven each other to laughter to the point of tears.

She’s my last thought at night and the first in the morning.

She’s my future. I am happy.